tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655099734864206668.post8992313840312189180..comments2011-01-09T00:34:24.613-08:00Comments on Welcome to my Monastereo: Something I Do KnowRenaissance Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12494297324834156860noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655099734864206668.post-88198767510262711012010-11-14T09:34:05.206-08:002010-11-14T09:34:05.206-08:00I agree with that wholeheartedly. It takes forever...I agree with that wholeheartedly. It takes forever to really build something, and it takes more than just romantic feelings to make a relationship work. People often forget you have to sacrifice everything. This is part of people's problem with God as well. We always want to keep this one thing in loo (sp?) of eternal happiness. I think part of it is we're terrified that if we give something away, no matter how it may vex us, we'll never get it back and be less than a person. Everything is so hard to see when you live in time.Renaissance Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12494297324834156860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6655099734864206668.post-91190096892984354872010-11-13T06:12:54.075-08:002010-11-13T06:12:54.075-08:00It is never a useful thing for someone to conclude...It is never a useful thing for someone to conclude either that something is wrong with them becasue of perceived failure, or wrong with the half of humanity they've been looking at. <br /><br />It's possible that non-success in love is a sign of something wrong (e.g., gross immaturity), but that's hardly the only possibility. Some people just take longer to match, and to quote a friend, "the relevant timescale for life events is years."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com